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    I have been practicing meditation for over 30 years. I started in 1979 when I discovered that meditation was a way to deal with anxiety. Since then, the simple act of closing my eyes and emptying my mind has completely transformed my life! Not only has it helped me reduce fear and negative thinking, it [...]

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    There’s a saying, “If you want something done, ask a busy person.” Or, “The more you do, the more you’ll do.” I’ve always have many balls up in the air. I’m the President of a local Toastmaster Club, the leader of a band, I blog, I teach meditation and I’m a succesful coach. With all [...]

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    Do you ever get sick and tired of yourself? You know… it’s all about me, me, me. What’s for dinner? How can I make more money? When will I find that perfect relationship? What will I be when I grow up? What’s my next diversion? If you listen to the gurus they’ll tell you: Be [...]

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    A Positive Mindset To Increase Your Happiness by 100%

    Long-time meditators simply see. They assign very little meaning to reality. After taking their spiritual lives so seriously, they have come to understand that life isn’t serious at all – it just is. If you have unconscious mindsets or beliefs that upset or cause you pain, here are valuable tools that will transform the way you [...]

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The Truth About Why Meditation Will Rock Your World

I have been practicing meditation for over 30 years. I started in 1979 when I discovered that meditation was a way to deal with anxiety. Since then, the simple act of closing my eyes and emptying my mind has completely transformed my life! Not only has it helped me reduce fear and negative thinking, it [...]

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So maybe you’re out there – looking for a relationship. How does the relationship you have with yourself affect your relationship with others? Are you willing to pop open the hood and look at the real engine that drives your behaviors, feelings and actions? WARNING! This could get deep! You are a spiritual being with [...]

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5 Steps for Clearing Negative Emotions

Thanksgiving is a time for family and friends. It is a good time to slow down, reflect and be grateful. Recently, I’ve been hit with hurdles and challenges that have gotten the best of me at times and I’ve been finding it hard to keep my usual cool, calm and grateful state. I have a [...]

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8 Steps to a Successful Online Business

I’ve found a unique and easy way to fill my coaching practice to the max – and I’ve done it in no time flat! Before that happened, I had to get clear on a few items. 1- Know Thyself Get to the heart of who you are and uncover your strengths, talents and unique genius. [...]

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7 Ways to Get Crystal Clear When Life Gets Complicated

There’s a saying, “If you want something done, ask a busy person.” Or, “The more you do, the more you’ll do.” I’ve always have many balls up in the air. I’m the President of a local Toastmaster Club, the leader of a band, I blog, I teach meditation and I’m a succesful coach. With all [...]

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A Positive Mindset To Increase Your Happiness by 100%

Long-time meditators simply see. They assign very little meaning to reality. After taking their spiritual lives so seriously, they have come to understand that life isn’t serious at all – it just is. If you have unconscious mindsets or beliefs that upset or cause you pain, here are valuable tools that will transform the way you [...]





The Truth About Why Meditation Will Rock Your World

by Ken LaDéroute on May 15, 2012

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I have been practicing meditation for over 30 years. I started in 1979 when I discovered that meditation was a way to deal with anxiety. Since then, the simple act of closing my eyes and emptying my mind has completely transformed my life!

Not only has it helped me reduce fear and negative thinking, it cleared away many of the limiting beliefs and feelings of unworthiness and low self-esteem that prevented me from achieving the happiness and success I saw for myself.

Meditation awakened my creativity and inspiration. I became more focused and my thinking processes became more coherent. I began to realize that I could do anything I set my mind to and that I could face any challenge.

Meditation was instrumental in helping me become successful in business, real estate, audio engineering, song writing, teaching, public speaking, coaching and my 30-year successful relationship with my wife.

The Problem of The Mind

The mind is a powerful form of energy. It is designed to think and generate thought. If you feed it with knowledge, it repeats the same knowledge, over and over again. It is merely an object of perception — a mechanism.

The mind is often confused, fearful, agitated, rebellious, and subject to innumerable conditioned mindsets and automatic patterns. It disengages itself due to so much thinking, but you do not have to be a slave to your thoughts.

There’s nothing wrong with thinking – it’s when you get lost in the mind’s dysfunction that you become dislodged from the intuitive source of the mind.

If you have the tendency to continually ask questions, or if it refuses to quiet down, this is a sign that you may have become a slave to your mind, and that it is time to transcend the mind and emotions to get to that place of equanimity or silence.

Imagine a pendulum as it swings between two poles. Can you see how the power that makes the pendulum move rests at the center point in between the alternating swings? At the still point of your mind is the source of thought. At the source of the mind is where you find your true power.

Learning to meditate brings you to the still point between the gap between two thoughts and practicing meditation is how you tune into your power.

What is Meditation?

Imagine a cloudless sky. This is your mind on meditation. As you notice and observe your thinking mind and the thoughts or “clouds” that arise, you become aware of simply being. This heightens state of awareness is meditation.

When the mind is silent, concentration is increased and you can experience inner peace in the midst of worldly turmoil.

I love the Anais Nin quote, “ You don’t see things as they are, you see things as YOU are.”

A regular practice of meditation can help you embody your inner peace to the extent that it becomes so contagious that it spreads to your friends, family and planet.

Your Brain on Meditation

Researchers at Harvard Medical School used MRI technology on participants to monitor brain activity while they meditated.

The sections of the brain that lit up during meditation were the sections of the brain in charge of the autonomic nervous system, which governs the functions in our bodies that we can’t control, such as digestion and blood pressure.

These are also the functions that are often compromised by stress. It makes sense, then, that modulating these functions would help ward off stress-related conditions such as heart disease, digestive problems and infertility.

Other research indicates that meditation increases the size of the hippo-campus, the portion of the brain that controls learning and memory. It also decreases the density of the amygdala, the part of the brain that stores stress and anxiety.

Studies show how meditation and mindfulness practice has success in enhancing mental agility and attention by changing brain structure and function so that brain processes are more efficient, the quality associated with higher intelligence.

Research at Harvard University has established that meditation actually increases the pre-frontal cortex of your brain, the part of the brain responsible for positive emotions, and the production of neurotransmitters that help us feel happy and relaxed.

In addition, people who meditate show dramatic increases in “whole-brain thinking” and learning, providing far greater comprehension ability and dramatically increased retention of various types of data received.

More Benefits of Meditation

In a study, published in Psychosomatic Medicine, taught a randomized group of 90 cancer patients mindful meditation. After seven weeks, those who had meditated reported that they were significantly less depressed, anxious, angry and confused than the control group, which hadn’t practiced meditation.

The meditators also had more energy and fewer heart and gastrointestinal problems than did the other group.

Meditation can also boost your immune system.

Researchers at the University of Wisconsin found that people who completed eight weeks of meditation training produced more antibodies to a flu vaccine and showed signs of increased activity in brain areas related to positive emotion than people who didn’t meditate.

It is the nature of the mind to magnify small things and turn them into serious problems. The judging mind has a tendency to dwell on the minor faults of others resulting in conflicts.

This mindset is a common source of unhappiness and division for many humans. Adopting a meditation practice allows us to see good qualities while minor faults seem unimportant.

Meditators are less angry, self-reflective and more loving. When you spend time with yourself in contemplation, you become aware that you are interconnected with others and that all humans want happiness and to suffer less.

You begin to see yourself in others, and you become more self-accepting and compassionate toward yourself.

Folks who practice meditation find themselves adopting optimistic mindsets and are less depressed. They have fewer negative thoughts and show a decrease in chronic and acute anxiety.

Meditators are less reactive and have longer fuses. They exhibit reduced aggression, and less emotional agitation in response to experiences or situations.

There is a reduced reliance on prescribed and un-prescribed drugs, or alcohol. They are better able to cope with life’s circumstances and they enjoy better sleep.

Mindfulness

Mindfulness is bringing one’s complete attention to the present experience on a moment-to-moment basis, non-judgmentally, just as it is.

If we stop and look at the thoughts that go through our minds, we would find that many of our thoughts are in dealing with the past or future. We are either fearful or worried about what will happen in the future or we are ruminating about the past.

By dwelling on the past or future, we are unable to live in the present moment.

As the mind approaches a state referred to as, “least excitation,” the mind is no longer influenced by the obsessive mental state, from which worry and stress is generated. Instead, the mind is naturally absorbed in present moment awareness. As the mind deepens in this state of harmony, worry and stress cannot survive.

Meditation is about expansion of awareness. This probably has more value than anything else. When you clear your awareness, you expand your range of choices, make better decisions and gain a better understanding of your life’s purpose.

What The World Needs Now

When I look at the research and the sheer weight of all the benefits that one can realize through the simple act of closing your eyes, being still and quieting the mind – it becomes clear that it’s almost foolish not to meditate.

From the inside out, the practice of meditation has completely galvanized my life. It has changed my emotional and psychological nature and freed my mind from limiting beliefs, negative mindsets, fear, anxiety, restlessness and mood swings.

It has made me more forgiving of myself and others. It has opened my heart and helped me find joy in appreciating the simplicity of life, and cultivate a real abiding happiness.

Meditation teaches us acceptance and to appreciate life just as it is; we learn to value our present circumstances.

If meditation expands awareness, brings peace, patience and compassion, with less fear and more joy – these are worth bringing into the world. I believe that meditation has the power to change everything and everyone, one mind at a time.

If you’ve always wanted to learn how to meditate, this is your lucky day. I have just published, “Meditation For Beginners” available on Amazon/Kindle. Click Here To Find Out More…

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7 Ways to Get Crystal Clear When Life Gets Complicated

by Ken LaDéroute on March 7, 2012

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There’s a saying, “If you want something done, ask a busy person.” Or, “The more you do, the more you’ll do.”

I’ve always have many balls up in the air. I’m the President of a local Toastmaster Club, the leader of a band, I blog, I teach meditation and I’m a succesful coach.

With all this going on in my mind sometimes it gets a little overwhelming.

Do you ever get stuck and unsure about which way to turn next? Maybe you’re agonizing over discovering your passion or purpose, what brings you joy, how to make more money or how to find that perfect relationship.

Sometimes you can over-think the problem to the point where your mind becomes muddled and confused.

Maybe you get to the point of overwhelm and you just find yourself feeling stuck. You know – analysis paralysis. Sometimes life just gets complicated.

I’ve been there many times as I have a curious mind and can see many sides to a problem. I’ve tried many techniques for getting clear when life gets confusing. Here are my 7 top tried-and-true tips for getting clear when life gets complex.

1. Give Your Mind a Rest

Retreat! Take time to be quiet and meditate. Use mind-quieting techniques that will help you calm your over-active mind. Here’s a link to my Free “How To Meditate” guide.

Practice the techniques inside this guide for 30 days. Once centered, you’ll see your life more clearly and you’ll be able to make better decisions to support your worthy goals.

2. Work Out

When someone asked entrepreneur, Richard Branson what his number one top productivity and confidence tip was, he simply said: “Work out.”

I’ve noticed that when I’m in a mental funk, all I need to do is go to the gym. When I get back to the office, I’m more energized, clear and focused.

  • If your mind is confused and cluttered – work out
  • If you want more energy – work out
  • If you want to keep from getting sick – work out
  • If you want more focus – work out
  • If you want to look better in your jeans – work out

3. Pro-Con Statement

When faced with a decision, one of the most valuable tools I use is a pro and con statement.

Take out a sheet of paper and draw a line down the middle of the page. Across the top of the page, draw a horizontal line to form a T. Label the left side “Pro” and the right side “Con.” Now create a question around your challenge or decision.

For example, “Should I stay in my current career or should I become a freelancer and go out on my own?” Now list all the options in favor or against this question.

After listing all your pros and cons, add them up. Often, simply doing this exercise will bring great awareness and clarity.

4. Create a Mind Map

A mind map is a diagram used to represent words, ideas, tasks, or other items linked to and arranged around a central key word or idea.

I use mind maps to bring clarity for my business and personal life. I start with one central theme and then brainstorm. I like using MindMeister.com.

5. Revisit Your SMART Goals

I’ve found that using Smart goal setting helps me clarify my vision for my future-life. Smart goal setting keeps me clear and on track.

S.M.A.R.T. Goal Setting is an acronym for Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic and Timely goal attainment.

- Specific
When you get specific and crystal clear on exactly the “who, what, when, where and why”, your chances of attaining you goal increases by leaps and bounds. Writing a goal like, “lose weight” is much too general.

A specific goal would be, “Make an appointment with a dietician on Monday at 1:00 PM to plan my new dietary lifestyle, meet with my trainer on Wednesday to discuss my work out regimen, and buy running shoes and work out clothes to keep me inspired,” is decidedly more specific.

- Measurable
Ask yourself, “How much, how many and how will I know when it is accomplished?” You need to be able to measure your progress. Set a target date and mark the calendar.

Make a sign and tape it to your computer and look at it everyday. When you hit your target, feel the exhilaration of your accomplishment. It will spur you on to reach your next smart goal.

- Attainable
When you write down goals that are meaningful to you, you’ll figure out ways of making them come true. When you clarify and define your smart goals, previously overlooked opportunities arise and become more apparent.

This awareness brings you closer to achieving your goals. You begin to see the new attitudes, skills and finances required to reach your smart goals. As you grow and expand, goals that may have seemed elusive or far away, move closer and become attainable.

- Realistic
For a goal to be realistic, you must truly believe in your heart of hearts that it can be achieved. Do you love your goal? Does it inspire you? Some of the loftiest goals ever accomplished actually were realized simply because they were a labor of love.

Ask yourself if you are passionate about your goal and if you are willing and able to accomplish it. If you accomplished this kind of goal in the past, it is more likely that you will accomplish it in the future.

- Timely
If you are a marathon runner and there isn’t a finish line, how do you know when to stop running? A smart goal should have a time frame. Without a finish line, there’s no definitive sense that you have attained your goal.

Setting a time frame keeps the sub-conscious mind aware of your goal. State clearly, in written form, “I will lose 5 pounds by April 15, 2011.” Use your Google calendar reminder tools to send you a daily email to keep you on track.

6. Take a Vacation

Maybe all you need is a little rest and relaxation. What about re-creation? You know what they say, sometimes you just need a change of scenery. Take a hike, go to the beach or go somewhere in nature.

7. Hire A Coach

A coach listens to you from an objective viewpoint and reflects back your language and beliefs.

A coach expands your view and drops you into a new reality and a new clarity. As you clear your mind of old mindsets and beliefs, you begin to heal yourself.

Call me 404-NOW-MIND for a free 30 minute get-aquainted session. Together, we’ll identify your challenges and strategize solutions.

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How To Squeeze The Sour Out Of Your Lemon

by Ken LaDéroute February 25, 2012
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Do you ever get sick and tired of yourself? You know… it’s all about me, me, me. What’s for dinner? How can I make more money? When will I find that perfect relationship? What will I be when I grow up? What’s my next diversion? If you listen to the gurus they’ll tell you: Be [...]

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How To Find That Perfect Relationship

by Ken LaDéroute February 6, 2012
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So maybe you’re out there – looking for a relationship. How does the relationship you have with yourself affect your relationship with others? Are you willing to pop open the hood and look at the real engine that drives your behaviors, feelings and actions? WARNING! This could get deep! You are a spiritual being with [...]

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Build Emotional Muscle: Positive Mindsets for Challenging Times

by Ken LaDéroute January 23, 2012
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I’ve been having more than my usual share of economic and health-related challenges lately, but that’s okay – I’m a survival expert. I left for the road when I was 17 with nothing but a guitar and suitcase. I’ve come a long way since then and I’ve made it all on my own. I toured [...]

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A Positive Mindset To Increase Your Happiness by 100%

by Ken LaDéroute January 2, 2012
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Long-time meditators simply see. They assign very little meaning to reality. After taking their spiritual lives so seriously, they have come to understand that life isn’t serious at all – it just is. If you have unconscious mindsets or beliefs that upset or cause you pain, here are valuable tools that will transform the way you [...]

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5 Warning Signs That Your Limiting Beliefs and Mindsets Are Sabotaging Your Success

by Ken LaDéroute December 19, 2011

Okay, show of hands… Who wonders why some people achieve enormous success and some don’t? Why is it that most people who win the lottery lose all their money and happiness in five years? Why is it that regardless of the ups and downs in the economy the ratio of wealthy people to poor people [...]

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Are You Alone for the Holidays?

by Ken LaDéroute December 19, 2011

The lights of the season remind us of the warmth of friends and family gatherings. For those who can’t make it home or may be spending the holiday alone, the seasonal celebrations can amplify feelings of loneliness. If you feel lonely, know that it’s okay. Try going into it and really feel the loneliness. Like [...]

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7 Spiritual Secrets for Men Looking To Build A Long Term Relationship

by Ken LaDéroute December 1, 2011

I’ve been with one woman for a very long time. She is my lover, helper and teacher. My greatest spiritual lessons have come through interactions with my life mate. As I ponder on this marriage and the effect it’s had on me, I marvel at how interrelated we’ve become. We know exactly what each other [...]

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5 Steps for Clearing Negative Emotions

by Ken LaDéroute November 23, 2011
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Thanksgiving is a time for family and friends. It is a good time to slow down, reflect and be grateful. Recently, I’ve been hit with hurdles and challenges that have gotten the best of me at times and I’ve been finding it hard to keep my usual cool, calm and grateful state. I have a [...]

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